Why is it that when you are involved in an abusive realtionship that you feel guilty if you want out!! Surely you are trying to make a better life for yourself and your kids so you shouldnt feel guilty!! When he is angry and horrible and threatening then it is easy to make plans but then when he is quiet and perhaps even ignoring you then you feel guilty for your secret "getaway life" that you are planning.
Does it mean then that he is right and that I should see a therapist because there is somethng wrong with me?
